A short while ago, I asked the question here:
              When you finish a project, how do you decide what to work on next?
I got a variety of fascinating answers:
     * When a project is finished, I take a break and read a lot
     * I always have a queue of of things waiting to be written
     * I’m always working on a main project and a side project but jump to what strikes most strongly at the time
                               * I have a schedule of things that need writing.  I have to be very organized.
                               * I have a book/folder/file full of ideas/notes/pictures/one-liners that I look at when it’s time to start something new

And then I asked:
               Do you wait for the muse to strike, or do you force her hand?
The response to this was pretty unanimous:
     * Sit down whether you feel like it or not
     * You have to be there at regular hours for the muse to find you

What I get from all this is that we writers, we who are serious about our writing, look at it as a job.  And yes, writing has to be a job.  It doesn’t matter if anyone is reading what we write.  It doesn’t matter if anyone is paying us for it.  It has to be a job with the same consistency and time dedicated to it as any other job.  If not, I think you can forget about ever getting better at it.  And if you don’t get better, no one will read your stuff, no less pay for it.  Remember when you used to wander around cemetaries in the dark, waiting, waiting…..no?  Was that just me?  Well, you know what I mean.  Waiting for inspiration is for kids fooling around.  Writing is work, real bum-on-the-seat-whether-you-want-to-or-not work.  But then again, you all already know that.

But that doesn’t mean we can’t lure the muse with all sorts of desk decorations and lovely mugs of tea and soothing background music and promises of undying love.  Not to mention blogs just to show how deadly serious we are about our devotion.  And that reminds me….did anyone notice that I changed the name of my blog?  It’s still about “Me and Others”, but I’m now calling it “Writing Life.”  As my blog and I approach the year-and-a-half age, I thought it was time to get a new haircut, so to speak.  Maybe the muse will stop to admire it.

Oh, and of course, thanks to my friends who gave such thoughtful answers to my questions: Absolute Vanilla, Tea Stains, DJ Kirkby, Carol, Lauri, Jamieson and Fia…..inspirations, all.